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           TOP 5 THINGS IT MEANS TO BE AN ALPHA

           More often than not young man come to us asking us “What does it really mean to be an alpha? What is it you truly stand for?” And we understand their confusion completely, after spending their whole lives in a society that doesn’t value the true man the way our ancestors used to, our lives slip into a passive existence and our brains go into “beta mode” turning otherwise capable men ready to learn and improve themselves into beta males who only blindly follow the instructions that society gives them. So today, we want to end the confusion by making this TOP FIVE THINGS IT MEANS TO BE AN ALPHA.

1.    NOT BEING A JERK

     When you say “alpha male” the first thing that comes to people’s minds is a macho jerk who puts down others and acts aggressively always looking for a fight. But that couldn’t be farther from the truth, people who act this way thinking that they are alpha are actually the most beta males that you can find. A true alpha never puts other men down, but strives to teach them how to be a good man and improve themselves. The only reason why an alpha male would ever attack another person is to protect himself or the well being of his loved ones, in other words an alpha male should act like a sheepdog protecting those close to him rather than attacking those weaker than him.

2.    BE ASSERTIVE AND DOMINANT

     An alpha male never allows himself to be put in a position in which other people would walk over him. You should be there for other people as much as possible but not allow them to take you for granted. You need to set up the boundaries, a clear border that you should let other people know about and if they cross it even once cut them out of your life that instant. In time people will learn not to mess with you and instead ask you nicely to help them or guide them. Domination over others does not only mean that you have control over how they behave in that situation, but you also need to control the situation yourself, you need to plan for the future, you are responsible for the well being and happiness of those who are under your submission and if anything negative happens to your flock it’s on you.

3.    NEVER CHASE GIRLS

     Each and every one of us needs companionship and you as an alpha are no different. But you should never allow yourself to chase after woman who do not appreciate you and what you stand for. If you see that a girl is using you for her own profit without putting any value back into your relationship you need to get out of there asap and cut her out of your life, it might be hard at first but after a few days or weeks of clear thinking you’ll see how much faster you progress without her. That being said, there are also girl in this world who are as alpha as you are and you should choose those type of girls to stand by you and to be you queen.  A relationship should require effort from both (or any other number) parties to ensure it is successful, you and your chosen queen need to live separate lives, each striving to achieve their own goals while also being there and supporting the other person and helping to achieve your shared goals. Never get tricked into being in a relationship where your queen acts like you are not her king.

4.    BE FINACNIALLY STABLE

     There is nothing more sexier, more dominant, more alpha than being an independent man who can take care of himself and his woman, his friends and his family. Of course not everything comes so easily, and it will require a lot of work and planning, as well as painful rejections and self denial to get to the stage where you can live on your own land by your own work. Surly anyone who wants to be called an alpha male must have the will and determination to succeed in this financial area of his life.

5.    WHEN YOU FALL, LIFT YOURSELF UP

     There will be times when you will be flying high and mighty in your newly found alpha ways, just before life throws a huge rock at you, breaking your wings and you will be coming right down to the ground as fast as you can. In these situations, is it crucial not to forget your path and not let the failure damage your spirit. You will fail, It happens to the best of man, but being alpha isn’t determined by the strength of your punch, but by the speed you can lift yourself back to success. This may mean you need to turn to friends for comfort, or to a loved one for support, or to spirituality for faith. Whenever a fall happens to me, I personally turn to myself, and my books. In these scenarios it’s best not to depend on other people more than you have to, it’s best to be your own support, to pause, asses the situation, adjust fire, and continue, more on this in future articles on my blog. 



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