3 Tips to attract girls

             

             The one thing any young guy strives for is to attract the females, to find that one special person to bring warmth ti his heart, or to find a couple of them to bring warmth to some other parts…
Whatever your reason may be it’s undoubtable that more and more young men are looking for a girlfriend and more and more of them aren’t able to attract and seduce anyone. So today in the spirit of helping young men all over the world strive to become the best, the greatest, the most alpha males they can be, we at The Aloha Teen bring you these THREE TIPS TO ATTRACT GIRLS, CAUTION these may cause broken hearts ;)

1.    Keep good eye contact

Gentlemen, good eye contact is not only attractive to girls, it’s necessary to convey any type of confidence in a conversation. People with strong eye contact tend to be more successful because they are perceived by others to be more dominant, more sure in themselves and more dominant, thus this is a skill (and yes it is a skill) that any man who strives to be alpha must learn.

So what is good eye contact and how do you develop one?
Well, good eye contact is basically looking someone in the eye when they talk or when you are talking and developing a look in your eyes that conveys a certain emotion non-verbally.

So what you should do to make good eye contact with a girl?
First thing is first, before you start talking to a girl you should not make any eyes contact since you may be perceived as a creep. Once you are ready to approach her, glance at her direction and as soon as your eyes meet, keep eye contact, approach her and start up a conversation (more on this in a future article).
Once you are already talking to a girl, you should keep eyes contact with her for at least five seconds or longer before glancing away just for a moment to relieve the sexual tension and then coming back to her with the same strong eye contact. You should not stare at a girl either, instead what you can do is use the SEDUCTIVE LOOK, which means you squint your eyes just a bit and a have a small, barely noticeable smile on your face, don’t squint too hard since you still want to look natural but just enough to non-verbally tell her that you are here in the present with her, and that you are giving her your full undivided attention.

2.    Be with a circle of friends

Everybody loves people who are social, it tells girls you already are a strong men without her and that you don’t need or even may not be interested in her that much, and girls go crazy for guy they think are out of their league. So next time you go out to find the love of your life, or to hook up with some drunk party animal make sure you go with a small group of friends. It’s even better if you can go out with female friend because when girls see a men who is surrounded with other girls they instantly find him more attractive! But even if you go out only with guys it’s still a big plus compared to being alone, and your guy friends can even serve as your wingman or support if you get rejected, which makes the fear of rejection less intense.

3.    Don’t be clingy

Don’t be one of those guys who are afraid to be rejected by her. Most guys these days worship a girl they like as if she was a goddess, I’m not saying you should be a dick to women but don’t be that one nice guy that they use to get a free pizza and a massage and then they dump. Don’t be afraid to tease her a little, not respond to her texts immediately, ignore her and don’t text her for a day or to, do those sort of things to show her that she is not the center of your life, and that if she were to use you or hurt you, you would just dump her and find a better girl! Once she is thinking more about you than you are about her then you are in control of the relationship and you can take it wherever you want from there. Don’t ignore her and act like a dick too often though because over time she might become irritated and just leave. You still need to treat her with respect and to help the growth of your relationship, but don’t be her slave (unless you two are into that sort of thing). As I said, girls go crazy for guys who don’t run after them, so by ignoring her, teasing her and making her thing about you, you are putting yourself in a better position so you can either win her, or if you are already in a relationship with her you can take control of it.

           

I hope this article helped you in developing your social skills around women. Being a full alpha male means that you are your own foundation and that you don’t need anyone to be your best self, but sometimes even the most alpha of the alpha males need a little warmth and comfort a good and loving women can bring into a man’s life. So brothers, go out there and use the tips we just gave you to create a great relationship for both of you! For updates related to our blog and to be notified when new articles come out, as well as for more motivational content follow out Instagram page @the_alpha_teen

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